Conflict Management its Styles, Types & Resolution BBA/MBA
What is Conflict Management? A Guide for BBA & MBA Students
In any business, conflict is a natural part of the workplace. Conflict management is the skill of identifying and handling these disagreements in a sensible, fair, and efficient way.
As BBA and MBA students, understanding this is key. You’ll be working in teams, and people will always have different opinions. The goal isn’t to avoid all conflict, but to manage it so it doesn’t harm productivity.
A key principle is that while not all conflicts can be resolved, learning how to manage them can prevent them from escalating into non-productive fights.
π‘ The 7 Core Characteristics of Conflict
To manage conflict, you first need to understand what it is and why it happens.
Conflict is a Process: Conflict happens in layers. The first layer is often a simple misunderstanding. Below that, you might find differences in values, viewpoints, or interests.
Conflict is Inevitable: No two people are the same. These individual differences will eventually lead to conflict. It’s a normal part of any team’s development (often called “form, storm, norm, perform”).
Conflict is Normal: In life and in business, everyone has unlimited needs but must share limited resources (like time, money, or power). This incompatibility is bound to create conflict.
Conflict is About Perception: A conflict only exists if the parties perceive it to exist. In any interaction, your perception of the situation is more important than the objective reality.
Conflict Involves Opposition: One party must be doing something (or be perceived as doing something) that the other party does not want.
Conflict Requires Interaction: You can’t have a conflict with someone you have no connection with. Conflict happens when people or groups are interdependent and must interact to get their work done.
Conflict Affects Everyone: Conflict can happen at any level: within yourself (intrapersonal), between two people (interpersonal), between groups (intergroup), or between whole organizations.
π Common Causes of Conflict in the Workplace
Conflict can be triggered by many factors. The most common reasons include:
Incompatibility: People have different attitudes, goals, values, or even perceptions of the same problem.
Seeking Power: A power struggle happens when multiple people want to be the leader and no one wants to follow.
Status Issues: Conflict arises when people feel they don’t have the status they deserve, or when a “wrong” person is promoted over a more qualified one.
Stress: External pressures (like a big deadline or personal problems) can make people irritable and lead to dysfunctional conflict.
Weak Leadership: A leader who is not respected, or who applies rules arbitrarily (unfairly), creates dissatisfaction and conflict.
Poor Organizational Structure: A lack of teamwork or poor communication channels makes it easy for misunderstandings to happen.
πͺοΈ The 5 Styles of Conflict Management
Researchers have identified five common styles people use to handle conflict. Each style can be measured on two scales: Assertiveness (how much you try to satisfy your own needs) and Cooperativeness (how much you try to satisfy others’ needs).
1. Avoidance (The Turtle)
Style: Non-Assertive and Non-Cooperative.
What it is: This is when you pretend a conflict doesn’t exist, ignore it, or withdraw from the situation.
When to use it: This strategy is best only when the issue is trivial (not worth the effort) or when you have no power to change things.
Nickname: Leave-Lose/Win (You leave, so you lose and/or the other person wins by default).
2. Accommodating (The Chameleon)
Style: Non-Assertive and Cooperative (The opposite of Competing).
What it is: You put your own interests last to satisfy the concerns of others. You give in or sacrifice your viewpoint.
When to use it: This is useful when you realize you are wrong, when the issue is more important to the other person, or when you want to build “goodwill.”
Nickname: Yield-Lose/Win (You yield, so you lose and the other person wins).
3. Competing (The Lion)
Style: Assertive and Non-Cooperative.
What it is: You put your interests first. You stand up for your rights and use your power to win. This is also known as the “dominating” style.
When to use it: This style is necessary in emergencies, when you have to make a quick, unpopular decision, or when you know you are right on a critical issue.
Nickname: Win/Lose.
4. Compromising (The Zebra)
Style: Somewhat Assertive and Somewhat Cooperative.
What it is: This is a “middle-ground” approach. Both parties give-and-take to find a mutually acceptable solution. The motto is “Something is better than nothing.”
When to use it: This is useful when goals are important but not worth the fight of “Competing,” or when two opponents of equal power are stuck.
Nickname: Mini-Win/Mini-Lose.
5. Collaborating (The… [Text does not provide a symbol])
Style: Assertive and Cooperative (The opposite of Avoiding).
What it is: This is the ideal “Win/Win” style. You work with the other party to find a solution that fully satisfies both of your concerns. It’s about solving the problem together.
When to use it: This is the best style for complex problems where you need commitment from everyone and want to build a long-term relationship.
Nickname: Win/Win.
π The Main Types of Conflict
Conflicts can be classified in several ways. Here are the most important types for BBA/MBA students to know.
1. Based on Scope: Substantive vs. Affective
This is a critical distinction.
Substantive Conflict (Functional): This is a disagreement over the job or task. It’s about goals, methods, or values. For example: “I think this marketing plan is better than that one.” This type of conflict can be good because it encourages discussion and can lead to better decisions.
Affective Conflict (Dysfunctional): This is an emotional disagreement based on people. It deals with interpersonal relationships, frustration, and personal friction. For example: “I just don’t like him.” This type of conflict is almost always bad and destructive to teamwork.
2. Based on Results: Constructive vs. Destructive
Constructive Conflict (Functional): This is any conflict that supports group goals and improves performance. It helps clarify problems, finds new solutions, and builds cooperation.
Destructive Conflict (Dysfunctional): This is any conflict that prevents a group from reaching its goals. It takes attention away from work, lowers morale, and leads to harmful behavior like name-calling.
3. Based on Involvement
Intrapersonal: Conflict within yourself (e.g., being unsure about a big decision).
Interpersonal: Conflict between two or more individuals.
Intra-organizational: Conflict within an organization (e.g., between the Marketing and Finance departments).
Inter-organizational: Conflict between two or more organizations (e.g., two companies competing for the same customers).
π The 4 Stages of a Conflict
A manager can handle a conflict better if they know how it develops.
Latent Stage: The potential for conflict exists. The conditions are right (e.g., scarce resources, different goals).
Perceived Stage: One or more parties recognize that a conflict exists and that their goals are being opposed.
Trigger Stage: An incident occurs that triggers the latent conflict, turning it into an open, active conflict.
Aftermath Stage: This is the outcome of the conflict. If one party feels they “lost” (a Win/Lose resolution), the potential for a new conflict is even higher than before.
π οΈ 8 Essential Skills for Managing Conflict
To prevent and manage conflict, you need specific personal skills.
Effective Communication: Speak politely, clearly, and precisely. Never shout. Don’t use abusive language or complicated words that confuse people.
Active Listening: Be a good listener. Don’t jump to conclusions. Always listen to the other side of the story before you comment.
Open Discussion: Don’t just follow rumors. Sit down with everyone involved and discuss the issues on an open forum. Find an alternative together.
Patience: Control your emotions. People may try to provoke you, but losing your temper only makes the situation worse.
Impartiality (Fairness): Be objective. Don’t just support your friends; support what is right. Listen to everyone, even if you don’t know them well.
Avoid Criticism: If someone is wrong, help them understand. Don’t criticize or make fun of them, as this will only hurt their sentiments and build resentment.
Positive Attitude: Don’t play the “blame game.” If you make a mistake, have the courage to accept it. Avoid backbiting; discuss issues face-to-face.
Know When to Ignore: Sometimes, you must adopt a middle path. Don’t waste all your energy on a person who is too adamant and completely unwilling to compromise. Ignoring them might solve half the problem.








